![]() Once this realization set in, I realized that there was no end to the possibilities of what he might do to maintain control over me. This is what finally scared me about mine. This is what makes domestic violence in all its forms so dangerous.you’ll never know what an abuser WON’T do to maintain his/her control over a victim. If a victim has the gumption to hold the abuser accountable for their actions/words, the abuser will simply “up the ante”.yelling louder, hitting harder, inflicting a harsher level of physical and emotional pain. Once this control is established, the victim is now viewed as incompetent in the abuser’s mind and, also according to his/her viewpoint, in the eyes of others, and the victim has no reasonable way to fight back or confront the abuser. It’s all about establishing and maintaining control. the abuser getting reprimanded at work by his/her boss. clothes not being put back in a certain way, or having nothing at all to do with the victim, i.e. Causes can be of the seemingly simplest form, i.e. ![]() It happens as a result of an abuser not getting his/her own way or things not going according to their plan. Minimizing, denying, and blaming happens very often within abusive relationships and largely goes unnoticed. ![]()
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